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ACCEPTING OR DECLINING INVITATIONS.
See INVITATIONS,
ACCEPTING OR DECLINING.
ACCIDENTS. See STREET
ETIQUETTE--MEN--ACCIDENTS.
ADDRESS. The address of a
person may be stamped
on the stationery.
If the address is stamped, it is not
customary
to stamp also the crest or monogram.
ADDRESSING ENVELOPES.
MEN. A man should be addressed as
Mr. James
J, Wilson, or James J. Wilson, Esq.
Either
the Mr. or the Esq. may be used, but
not
the two together.
The title belonging to a man should
be
given. It is not customary to use
Mr. or
Esq. when Jr. or Sr. is used.
WOMEN. A woman's name should always
have
the Miss or Mrs.
A woman should never be given her
husband's
official title, as Mrs. Judge
Wilson.
If a woman has a title of her own,
she
should be addressed as Dr. Minnie
Wilson,
when the letter is a professional
one. If
a social letter, this should be Miss
Minnie
Wilson, or Mrs. Minnie Wilson.
ADDRESSING PERSONS. Young
girls should be spoken
of as Minnie Wilson, and not as Miss
Minnie,
but are personally addressed as Miss
Minnie.
Only the greatest intimacy warrants
a man
in addressing a young girl as
Minnie.
Parents should introduce their
daughter
as My daughter Minnie, but should
speak
of them before servants as Miss
Minnie.
A married woman should be spoken of
as
Mrs. Agnes Wilson, and personally
addressed
as Mrs. Wilson.
ADDRESSING AND SIGNING LETTERS.
All answers to
invitations should be addressed to
the party
issuing them.
Letters to a woman who is a
comparative
stranger may begin My dear Mrs.
Wilson,
and to a closer acquaintance Dear
Mrs.
Wilson.
Letters to a man who is a
comparative
stranger may begin My dear Mr.
Wilson,
and to a closer acquaintance Dear
Mr.
Wilson.
For forms of addressing persons with
titles,
as Mayor, see under that title--as,
Mayor,
Governor.
The letters may end, Sincerely
yours, or
Very truly yours, or I remain yours
with
kindest regards.
The signature of a man should be
John J.
Wilson or J. Jones Wilson.
An unmarried woman should sign
social
letters as Minnie Wilson, and a
business letter
as Miss Minnie Wilson. A married
woman
should sign a social letter as Agnes
Wilson.
In signing a business letter, a
married woman
may either sign her name Mrs. Agnes
Wilson,
or, preferably,
Agnes Wilson
(Mrs. John Wilson)
AFTERNOON CALLS. These should
be made between
three and half-past five, and if
possible on
regular at home days.
In making an afternoon call a man
should
wear the regulation afternoon dress.
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